Swingers Personals: Only swinging couples

Swingers Personals: Only swinging couples

Only swinging couples

Hi we got in the swinging scene about 4 years ago after a Hot visit to Hedo II.............
We had heard a lot about in Europe and thought it would be nice to see something diffrent,, and we did. It was a first for us and wow have we had fun since.

Unfortunatly you get so many time wasters, the He/sHE, the photo collectors, and the ones that have no life.

We make it clear that we say we want to meet couples only it means that.
Is it so hard for you single guys to under stand! that when we couples that means couples.

If we go to a party, club or Hedo and single guy comes on to us and we are not interested we tell him no thanks and he goes. (Well its in his best interest) OK he tried no harm done we do not have a sign saying no single guys.

Our first "Normal" Swingers Party

Stan and I have never been to a natural everyday type of party since we met.

Last Saturday we were invited to a going away party. I didn't know any person, but Stan had lived in the tiny town close to Kingman for many years. So we attended the party.

I am not a party type of person. I don't drink much, so I don't get drunk and I don't like gatherings of people especially if I don't know anyone there. I ordinarily end up sitting in a corner watching everything that takes place.

This time was no different. I sat in my corner, didn't speak unless spoken too. I did help set up the dinner. A young man came around handing out beer to everyone, so I took one, took 2 sips and handed it off to Stan.

I sat and watched and thanked god I didn't have to act like that anymore. There was all age groups including young kids and I have to say the adults acted worse than the kids did. The adults got loud and some of them loathsome the more they drank. Their was one man their that reminded me of my mom (she was an alcoholic), which made me want to crawl under a bush. The women became foul mouthed as they drank more. Lots of insinuations going on. The older men were not any better. I do have to say that the young men were very nice and polite and didn't get nasty as time wore on. They stayed in their corner, just like me in my corner.

I will take a swingers party over a "normal" party any day or night. Most people do not get drunk, the conversations are wide spread, from sex to politics and we all act like adults.

At a swingers party the women are in control. No means no, and their is none of the game playing that went on at this party. No insinuations, and the only foul words you hear are when sex is going on and even at that it's very little. You don't flirt with anyone unless you mean to take that person into a room or onto a bed for sexual play. It's all straight forward. It's comfortable being nude in a room full of nude people that accept each other for who they are, not for what they think they are.

Yes, give me a swingers party any time over normal parties.

Experience at an Adult Spa

What a blast. Two days at an adult-action Spa. My new gal, my best buddy and his wife, and me. Va-voom. Several things have made it real special. First, its a nude Spa so I've enjoyed us and everyone else being nude. Second, my gal and I had side-by-side simultaneous sensual massages. Third, being part of a hot pool party last evening and seeing my gal take part in the action. Fourth, watching my buddy and his wife, who had been only soft swingers, cross the line and fuck other people. Fifth, sitting here this evening with my gal (we've decided to call her Myg for My gal), Myg, using one of the complimentary computers here at the Spa to surf Adult FriendFinder and other hot sites together. Well we still have the rest of tonight to party so we're going to party-on.

Meeting swingers

My friends wrote me yesterday:

"Well we went to our first swingers meet and great party last night.

Was not at all what either of expected, it was supper kwel with a lot of really great and fun people that were totally laid back with no preasure to do any thing you didn't want.

It was a really fun time and we are really looking forward to our next one!!!!

As this being our first we mostly just people watched and got to meet a few people and such, next time were hoping to make some strides in the hooking up department...."

Swingers Resorts

We received a next question:
"With summer quickly cumming to a close my thoughts are turning to a winter vacation already. I've been doing some research online looking for a swingers resort! I know they exist but there doesn't seem to be a lot of info out there....Would love to here from any of you where you may have been or are hoping to go this winter. I don't want to attend a nudist resort, in my recent experience I've found they tend to be a naked retirement community...I'm looking for fun, lust and lots of sex, oh and did I mention lots of sex! So let me know what is out there, send me any links, I'd love to here from you, and hell you might just fit in my suitcase I know it's not going to have much clothing in it!"

The type of resort you are looking for may depend on whether you are going on vacation alone or as a couple (M/F). Desires Resorts are for couples only. The resort doesn't allow orgies in the public areas but the guests are free to use the 'play room' at the disco and some of the beds at the jucuzzi aren't off limits.
The Hedonism resorts in Jamacia cater to both single and couples. There are some resorts in the States and I think one in Canada. Most resorts don't discriminate as to age and if you want a real party 24/7 atmosphere then you should go online and do a Lifestyles/swingers vacation search that will list such travel agents as Lifestyles, NFN, DennyP and several others that list dates when swingclubs are attending certain resorts at a specific time.

The swinging life

U've seen the movie & the promicious lifestyle is ready on as we speak...most of us who are already into it & are enjoying themselves i surely... so i ask myself..why not enjoy being & make new friends along the way?? been frustrating too..
Have emailed some ppl..most of them replied back & some just nowhere to be found?? i'm sorry? gives??? I didn't do anything?? WTF???!!!

Anyways..for those of you out there who are into this, it'll be much pleasing if theres any pointers for a newbie like me...or anyone paying attention to start off i'd be content to join in & help & be part of the gang...

3somes,swing parties,group orgies..etc.. i'm ready y'all..