Swingers Personals

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Swapping Couples Story


Over the weekend, we headed over to FLC4U's home for a few of days of relaxation. There were, of course, other activities planned, as well.

We had originally met FLC4U at their party in Songtan about four months ago, hung out with them again at our party over Chuseok, then roomed with them at the Halloween party. It seemed we were becoming quite an item.

There was, however, something we didn't understand about FLC4U: their profile explicitly states that they are not looking for full-swap couples, but they seemed to be enjoying our company a lot. In fact, I think we let them down over Halloween because they wanted to room with us in order to "share."

G from FLC4U likes Abby's curves and personality (and, I'm sure, the number and intensity of her orgasms) and C likes cuddly teddy bears. It seems we were the ones to break the "no swapping" rule, so we went this last weekend to help them with that.

We're not really strong swappers. I've said previously that I don't generally find other women interesting and kind of lose my "steam" when we get down to the moment, but I let FLC4U know this and agreed to try yet again. C is cute and curvy, so I figured I could get over my inhibitions with her.

The first night we didn't swap, though. We went out to eat kalbi and have a few drinks at a great pirate bar, then went home to play around on their bed.

At this point, I think I should comment on their apartment. They have a great place with two large bedrooms and a rooftop all to themselves. Their fridge is always overflowing with stuff we can't find out here in nowheresville and their hospitality makes us feel embarrassingly pampered.

Anyway, the first night the girls did a little kissing and such, but we still ended up in a same-room sex situation with not much contact between them. We feel very comfortable with FLC4U and enjoy their company very much, so not jumping into a big pile wasn't a result of feeling uncomfortable -- it just didn't happen the way we planned.

As usual, Abby came several times, but I didn't orgasm in the group setting. I guess I get a little gun-shy. After we went to separate bedrooms, though, Abby and I took care of that. The volume of come was amazing. I just kept shooting and shooting, covering Abby's chest and mouth, with lines of white extending to her hairline. I'm lucky I didn't put an eye out with the thing, and I somehow avoided getting anything up her nose, as well.

The second day was a lazy, lay-around event. G cooked up a fine breakfast for us and then we sat around talking until about two, when FLC4U disappeared into the bedroom for a nap and we took showers. I played with the X-Box for a while, but eventually got bored and horny, so asked Abby to give me a blowjob in the living room. G came out of their bedroom to walk the dog, so we ducked into our bedroom to finish up. He came back sometime in the middle to the sound of moans and screams. He he. Poor guy.

When C woke up to find out that we had gone on without her, she was upset and disappointed, so we agreed to stay another night and rush home on Monday morning. C was so excited to have her "Abby time" that she was jumping up and down.

After some Outback Steakhouse and 3-4 drinks each, we went back to their place and spent the next half hour swapping information about dos and don'ts for each of the group. The partner was the one who described the process of bringing the other to orgasm. That worked pretty well and we learned that C is a lot less sensitive than Abby is and can be squeezed a little harder.

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Swingers vacation


We just go back from a week at the Outer Banks in NC. It was bike week and I really hoped to have my first biker. It seems that alot of swingers online are bikers and I've always thought how sexy it would be on a bike behind those sand dunes up near corolla. I could lay back on the bike while he stands behind the bike and rubs my clit with his thumb while he enters me. The sun would beat down on us but the heat between us would overshadow it. The ocean beeze would dry our swet and our sex would over scent the air so that all you could smell was raw sex. MMMmmmm.
But I couldn't find me a biker, so I made do. We had a couple visit us on Tuesday and after a great dinner at Jolly Rogers the four of us lay down on the bed and sucked and fucked our eyes out. They are a terrific couple and I really had a good time. The first orgasm shook my bones and after that every move he made started a new wave of tremmors. more later I've made myself horny and have to relieve the stress lol

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Swingers Lifestyle Choices


As an active swinger I wonder how difficult it would be to find other lifestyle friends if it were not for this and other similar sites.

Even going to the meet n' greets I realize how difficult it is to determine the lifestyle peeps from the non-lifestyle peeps.

I am fortunate as I am part of a very large circle or network if you will of lifestyle friends. Finding someone to play with is never difficult. Our network frequents local dances and certain events around town, thus keeping it interesting all the time.

I remember when I was a newbie to this lifestyle and I found a local event in Burnaby and my then husband and I went. I was mauled by two strangers and yet no one else even spoke to us. It is such a shame that we have such great resources for lifestyle choices such as swinging and yet we so rarely embrace new people.

I have helped many new swingers find the connections and the venues they wanted and I think it should be like that for everyone. Why can't we have a ton of new people in our chat rooms or at the meet n' greets or other functions? Let's embrace the newbie's people because we were once newbies ourselves.

So here is my challenge to all chat rooms, all groups, all lifestyles out there: I dare all of you to show some support to a newbie or two at every event you attend or every chat room your in for the next month. Let's see if our circle of friends can duplicate itself in the next month simply by opening ourselves up to someone new!!!