Swingers Personals

Friday, August 21, 2009

Swingers Discretion

swingers discretion

I received an email from a very irate black gentleman today. He read our profile and saw our bling and read my earlier blog and apparently we angered him. I replied to him pretty much the same as I will write here, but it got me thinking. After searching other blogs I found that his stance was not uncommon.

Anyways, the gist of the email was why we wanted black men to fuck my wife behind closed doors but "we aren't good enough for dating or getting married".

Well first off, she's already married...to me. She fell in love with me, and I fell in love with her. We got married. We devoted our hearts to each other. I live for my wife's happiness.

Secondly, the laws in the US prevent people from being married to multiple partners.

Next, she has dated people of all races in the past, as have I...yes...publically dated...with all the benefits and pitfalls (because of assholes in society) that it had to offer. Whoopee for us, right. Nah...no big deal. It's just the fact that this gentleman figured he had us pegged for something and I want to dispute it.

See, my wife and I are swingers. We swing...we like to enjoy sex and enjoy it with others. We're open minded like that. We swing with other couples, other women, and other men. What we REALLY like is to play the interracial hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. I say play because we don't live it 24/7.

Because of our job and families, we rely heavily on discretion. "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets". We don't go out and publically testify to our swinging lifestyle, why do we need to publically display the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle?

So please...don't be offended, however don't think I really give a crap if you are. It's our lives and our business. If we invite you into it, the first thing we ask is for discretion and respect. If you can't give us that, then we don't play. We give it, we expect it in return.

In conclusion, we're here to enjoy ourselves and have fun. Aren't you?