As an active swinger I wonder how difficult it would be to find other lifestyle friends if it were not for this and other similar sites.
Even going to the meet n' greets I realize how difficult it is to determine the lifestyle peeps from the non-lifestyle peeps.
I am fortunate as I am part of a very large circle or network if you will of lifestyle friends. Finding someone to play with is never difficult. Our network frequents local dances and certain events around town, thus keeping it interesting all the time.
I remember when I was a newbie to this lifestyle and I found a local event in Burnaby and my then husband and I went. I was mauled by two strangers and yet no one else even spoke to us. It is such a shame that we have such great resources for lifestyle choices such as swinging and yet we so rarely embrace new people.
I have helped many new swingers find the connections and the venues they wanted and I think it should be like that for everyone. Why can't we have a ton of new people in our chat rooms or at the meet n' greets or other functions? Let's embrace the newbie's people because we were once newbies ourselves.
So here is my challenge to all chat rooms, all groups, all lifestyles out there: I dare all of you to show some support to a newbie or two at every event you attend or every chat room your in for the next month. Let's see if our circle of friends can duplicate itself in the next month simply by opening ourselves up to someone new!!!
